the road to realisation

This collection includes some of the writing I am most proud of, and certainly some of the essays on various areas of BDSM that first got wider appreciation within the community.

A far lighter read than , this collection of essays and writing covers a lot of practical advice for self discovery and realisation on one person’s journey to a place of actualisation. This collection charts the journey from gratitude, to acceptance, to understanding, and back again with suggestions for people on both sides of the kneel.

~15,000 words

Includes the essays: “I want to serve a person, not just a role”, “Getting informed consent from your submissive will not ruin your mystique (it could even make you a better Dominant)” and “Slut Yoga - Slave positions and how to follow them without injuring yourself”.